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Never wrestle with a pig

Some people just want to argue and fight. They like the attention. They like the excitement.

We all know someone like that.

What do you do when you get a confronting email, Tweet or WhatsApp from a crazy person?

Play dead.

Sending a reply is like adding petrol to the fire. Your reasoning will be overshadowed by their need for battle. Their urge to bully and win.

Just let it go.

Arguing with a crazy person is like that is like wrestling with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it.

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